"I am important not because of who I am, but because of Whose I am." - james n. watkins |
I
was at a writers’ conference recently where the speaker, Jim Watkins, warned against
the “three deadly ‘C’s …comparison, copying and criticizing.” He had me at the
first “C.”
Comparison.
I’m not good enough. Or, on the flip side…I’m awesome! Sometimes both
sentiments occur in the same day. Sometimes in the same hour, and the treasured
middle ground gets traveled few and far between. So what do we do? One moment
we are on top of the world. We may genuinely care about the minions beneath us,
and even hope for their success and general good will. But at the moment we our
dazzled by our own accomplishments.
Where is the danger? If we have reached our pinnacle
shouldn’t that be a wonderful thing? Paul, the author of Galatians, says to “carry each other’s burdens.” The
problem with being at the top looking down is that we are at the top looking down, and “below” is the mass of humanity
struggling with everyday life, just trying to make it. We are to be there for
each other. Not looking down and gloating, but elbow to elbow in the struggle being present, nearby, walking together, giving and receiving. The other danger
of looking down is self-deceit/conceit. When our focus rests on ourselves we
become blind to the world around us and the sin within us. It is not a healthy
or accurate view of ourselves.
So
then is the opposite, “I’m not good enough” and “I wish I was more like so-and-so,” attitude better, more Godly and humble? Paul seems to disagree. He instead
says to measure ourselves against ourselves. “Each one should test his own actions. Then he can take pride in
himself.” Comparison to others can be crippling and our feelings of inadequacy can impede our obedience to God’s calling. We don’t feel qualified to carry the
burdens of others or to fulfill our role in God’s plan.
How
do we combat these extremes? By spending time in fellowship with God, reading
his Word, prayer, and listening to his voice of truth. When we let his Spirit
teach our hearts, then our “jar of clay” becomes filled with life and meaning. We are his
children. We have value, are loved, created and chosen. And yet we are also
called to be servants and to love our neighbors as ourselves. When God combines
these dichotomies, then the load we are called to carry is no longer a trophy
or a burden, but a precious gift and our spiritual act of worship.
Well said, Sara! <3
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